--- title: 4 Tips To Help Your Child Choose the Right Secondary School description: Choosing the right secondary school goes beyond the revisit. 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Your eighth-grader has received offers from  secondary schools and now the ball is back in your family's court to make a final decision.  Accepted student events can hold a tremendous allure for young teens, but discerning where your child should matriculate must be based on more than a tempting re-visit experience.  **Here are four questions to ask your child to consider when making a final school choice: ** 1. Do the teachers and teaching style at the school connect with the way you learn best? Do you enjoy the Harkness-style, for example, or prefer a teacher-led classroom? 2. Will you feel toward the head of the class, versus the middle or bottom? Will the challenge of the curriculum feel appropriate? 3. How do you want to grow in the next four years?  Think of yourself not just as a ninth-grader, but all the way through the next four years.  Which environment and set of people will best help you achieve that vision you have for yourself? 4. In which environment will you be able to most grow as a leader? Will you have the extracurricular opportunities you love and will you be able to grow and develop as a leader within your interest? 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